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Things You Might Do When Grieving (Even If They Feel Strange)
Grief can show up in unexpected ways beyond sadness, including changes in routines, talking to a loved one who has died, and physical or emotional withdrawal. This post explores common grief responses that are often misunderstood but deeply human.
aprilhortman
May 283 min read


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Mar 180 min read


Managing Complicated Grief: Finding Your Way Through the Shadows
Grief is a journey without a map. It twists and turns, sometimes gentle, sometimes fierce. When grief becomes complicated, it feels like being caught in a storm that never quite clears. You may find yourself stuck in pain, unable to move forward. But there is hope. You can learn to navigate this difficult path with care and courage. Understanding and Managing Complicated Grief Complicated grief is not just sadness. It is a deep, persistent pain that interferes with your daily
aprilhortman
Mar 134 min read


Understanding Anxiety: A Path to Healing
Anxiety has become one of the most searched and talked-about experiences in mental health today—and for good reason. More people are naming it, living with it, and trying to understand it than ever before. What's important to understand is that anxiety isn't just something that happens in our thoughts. Most of the time, we feel it in the body first. A tight chest. A racing heart. Restlessness. The inability to settle—even when nothing is technically wrong. That's because t
aprilhortman
Mar 134 min read


Why Grief Comes in Waves: Understanding the Rhythm of Loss
Grief is not a steady river. It is a sea with tides, currents, and sudden storms. When loss first hits, it does not feel like waves at all. Instead, it crashes over you, overwhelming every sense. You lose your footing. Time blurs. The past and present collide. Your body and mind scramble to hold it all together. Ordinary moments feel strange, as if you are floating in a dream. This is the beginning of grief - a raw, disorienting force that reshapes your world. The Early Storm
aprilhortman
Feb 274 min read


Understanding Strength: Navigating Grief and Trauma
The Weight of Expectations A client enters the room appearing fatigued. Their posture is collapsed inward, and their speech is measured and subdued. As the session unfolds, they identify multiple domains in which they believe they are failing. Professionally, they describe decreased productivity and difficulty concentrating. Personally, they report strained relationships and emotional withdrawal. Financially, they note mounting stress and a sense of instability. After outlini
aprilhortman
Feb 184 min read


AI Is Not the Therapist, But It Can Still Be in the Room: My Journey from Grief to Possibility
By Dr. April Hortman, LCSW Like many clinicians, I initially felt a deep unease about the rise of AI in mental health. At first, I grieved what felt like a threat to everything I’ve devoted my life to: the human connection, relational depth, and the expertise of training and lived experience. I worried: Would AI replace the therapist? Would my professional identity become obsolete? But as I sat with these fears, much like I encourage my clients to do, I realized two things ca
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Jun 26, 20253 min read


The Broken Bone Theory of Grief™
A trauma-informed, somatic model of grief that honors the body's natural response to loss and our deeply human capacity to repair. The...
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Jun 16, 20254 min read
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